5 Signs You ARE A Side Chick
Who is a side chick? (African American Vernacular English, slang) A mistress; a woman one dates in addition to one’s girlfriend or wife, usually in secret.
All The Signs You’re Just His Side Chick And Nothing More
He doesn’t take you on dates. Or if he does, it’s always at the same place. …
You have never met his friends. …
He only texts you during “booty-call hours.” …
There’s no social media evidence of the two of you together. …
He has a wall up around you. …
You’re just not a priority to him.
Ask anyone about dating in the age of Tinder, and they’ll all let out an exasperated sigh.
These days, people are afraid to “settle” and are always searching for something better. Everyone is on this continuous journey to find the perfect partner.
And in this constant search for something better, you may get tossed aside without even realizing it. Even asking the infamous “what are we” question can come off as clingy.
This search for instant gratification has created a new role in the dating world: the dreaded side chick role.
But, how do you even know you’re a side chick? If these signs describe your relationship, then you might be one:
Here are the 5 Signs You ARE A Side Chick
#1 YOU HAVE NO CLUE WHERE HE LIVES
He knows where you live and comes often, but you have never seen, been invited to or been in his place. Ask yourself: What is he hiding? A girl? Wife? Kids?
#2 HATES IT WHEN YOU TAKE HIS PICTURE
Of course he’s scared a photo of you two might randomly pop up on social media!
#3 HE ONLY CALLS YOU FOR S3X
He won’t take you out: movies, dinner or bowling, but can ALWAYS find time to have s3x. Girl he’s using you for one thing and one thing only.
#4 YOU’VE NEVER MET HIS FRIENDS
People in healthy relationships meet each other’s friends and family. And If you haven’t met them and they live in the same city… Houston, you have a problem.
#5 NEVER SHOWS UP WHEN HE’S SUPPOSED TO
Let’s just say he does make plans with you, but constantly stands you up with no explanations or apologies. RED FLAG!