Don’t live in denial, take the hardest decision!

It’s hard to walk away from someone you have loved so much and planned all your future with, but if the pain and suffering is too much then you must! You have to make sure that you’re not holding on because you can’t leave without them, you have nowhere to go or no one to love you the way you are.
You have to be sure that you’re not trying to raise or babysit an adult or change a person who is unwilling to change. It’s not all about you, it’s about them. It’s not that you’re not worthy of love. It’s that they aren’t ready to learn how to love or they no longer love you and they lost your feelings. You have to recognize that and be willing to walk away no matter what. 

Sometimes it’s the walking away part that makes a person change and even reorganizes the diamond they lost while they were busy counting stars. If you’ve ever left before and it didn’t influence them to change then this time around it has to be for good.
You know we waste so much unnecessary time trying to make love work. We bear all the hurting things, the naked lies, the suffering, fights and external pressures thinking they will change and be good and loving people but in most cases they never. 
You have to be willing to admit that they no longer love you like before. Something changed them. Maybe someone else came into their life or maybe they had lust for you and now it’s no more. They are now with you because something came up and they have no choice. Their being in a relationship with you is now like they are doing you a favor. They are trying to sugar coat
Now you have to be willing to cut your losses, you learn your lesson(s), you gather all the strength and move on stronger and wiser. You can’t force them love you and you shouldn’t have to.
Remember love is a free natural gift from God not a curse. Don’t live a cursed life by trying to hold onto a lie. Don’t live in denial. Evaluate your situation please. If you know you’ve done all you can to make it work and it hasn’t, let it go. Love is waiting for you but you can’t attract it if you’re still tied to a lie. 
So, if you know your worth, then take the hardest step to save your heart, time and life. I pray you find the strength to leave if you know you need to leave!

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