It’s hard to walk away from someone you have loved so much and planned all your future with, but if the pain and suffering is too much then you must! You have to make sure that you’re not holding on because you can’t leave without them, you have nowhere to go or no one to love you the way you are.
You have to be sure that you’re not trying to raise or babysit an adult or change a person who is unwilling to change. It’s not all about you, it’s about them. It’s not that you’re not worthy of love. It’s that they aren’t ready to learn how to love or they no longer love you and they lost your feelings. You have to recognize that and be willing to walk away no matter what.
You know we waste so much unnecessary time trying to make love work. We bear all the hurting things, the naked lies, the suffering, fights and external pressures thinking they will change and be good and loving people but in most cases they never.
Remember love is a free natural gift from God not a curse. Don’t live a cursed life by trying to hold onto a lie. Don’t live in denial. Evaluate your situation please. If you know you’ve done all you can to make it work and it hasn’t, let it go. Love is waiting for you but you can’t attract it if you’re still tied to a lie.