Yesterday I posted this question in my WhatsApp group;
“Is it okay to keep in contact with an ex when you are in a new relationship?”
If one still loathes their exe(s) and they hold intense pain over them, believe me or not they are not yet healed. They live in pretense when they say that they are happy without them. They even lie and they are unfair to their new partners when they say they love them. Because the truth is they are still hurting inside and their hearts are bleeding internally every day.
We should learn to forgive our exes, we let our emotions loose and we move on. And if they still want our friendship when we are already in a new relationship it’s also okay if they are ready to respect it and we must set clear and open boundaries.
Therefore, let’s not hold grudges or harbor rage in our small and fragile hearts over our exes because this world is round and you never know where you will be tomorrow. That ex you loathe so much might be of help to you and your family in the future.