Top 5 Reasons Why a Girl should Call First
Should a girl call first or keep waiting for him to call? Are you too scared to pick up the phone? Here are 5 reasons why you need to make the first move.
1 Assertive Women are Hot
Men won’t probably willingly admit this, but they absolutely love an assertive woman. They love women who know what they want. This is why you should call first – show him you’re not afraid to do so. Men find this really flattering and at the same time it shows him that you’re a strong woman and not a wishy-washy one.
2 You’re into Him
This is clear and it should be obvious. However, you’ll be surprised to hear that many women actually ignore their feelings for fear of scaring off the guy. If you like him, what do you have to lose? Give him a call. If you think about it, it’s only been one date. So if he’s not into you, it doesn’t really matter too much. Instead of just waiting and wondering whether he likes you or not, give him a call and find out for yourself.
3 He’s Shy
Sometimes we expect too much from guys. We expect him to be confident just because he’s male. But the chances are, if he really does like you and he’s shy, he’s not going to call immediately. He’ll think about things too much and he’ll tell himself it’s “too early.” Because of his uncertainty, you may be left hanging. What you need to do is be more certain about him. You’ll take the weight off his shoulders and, trust me, he’ll appreciate it.
4 It Rubs His Ego
Men will often wonder if a woman feels the same way. He’ll wonder whether you like him or not. Perhaps you’ve already been on a date. Perhaps you did slip him your number on a beer coaster, but what does this mean? Does it mean anything?
Calling him shows that you like him. Therefore, it’s the same thing as giving him a compliment. When he hears your voice on the other end of the line, he’ll be reassured that you like him and therefore you’re rubbing his ego a little bit and paying him a compliment. If you show him that you’re interested, his confidence will shoot through the roof, which in turn will open him up to calling you more in the future.
5 Someone’s Got to Do it
Men are like us – they follow rules. Sometimes they don’t call because they too don’t want to seem too eager. They want to keep their “cool” image, but deep down they do want to call. The end result is that no one calls and then of course it’s too late. Stop dilly-dallying about and break the ice yourself. This way you’ll relieve the pressure on both of you and you can continue where you left off.